lagi pasal birthmark wafiy....

seriously aku sangat tension tapi takleh nak salahkan org coz wafiy's birthmark mmg menarik perhatian org...maklumlaa kat kepala kan...aku tak pernah keluar kemana2 tanpa ditegur org pasal birthmark wafiy....

-can u see his birthmark???-
yesterday i went to guardian and this cashier lady ask..."kak,itu lebam kerr???"...my answer.."tak,birtmark."..aku dah malas nak cakap apa2 lagi eventhough that lady nak borak2 lagi....ermmm,mama is quite emotional lately when people bring out that birth mark matter...

aritu masa makan kat pizza hut...waiter yg tgh amik order tu..sempat lagi nak menegur.."lebam ke ni"..papa malas nak cakap banyak.."a'aah lebam"...

my future sis-in-law message me that day..dia kata mak dia ada cakap pasal tanda wafiy..diorg tgk tanda wafiy masa engagement caremony that day...mak dia kata ada sepupu dia yg jadi ustaz kat pasir mas,kelantan yg insyaallah boleh alihkan tanda wafiy ni ke tempat lain...ermmmm,korg pernah dengar tak org boleh alih2 tanda ni?????Actually ini bukan the first time aku dengar ni...tiap org yg datang melawat wafiy masa baru lahir semua suruh aku carikkan org yg ada kebolehan alihkan tanda ni dengan alasan..kesian kat anak ada tanda camtu...

tadi aku tgk kat yahoo then terjumpa this article...detail here

"Birthmarks fall into one of two categories: pigmented or vascular. Pigmented birthmarks are a result of an overgrowth of melanocytes, the cells that regulate the pigment in our skin. Pigmented birthmarks are very common, including marks such as café-au-lait spots, moles, and Mongolian blue spots.

Mongolian blue spots are curious, flat, bruise-like spots that often appear on a baby’s buttocks or lower body. This type of birthmark occurs most often in darker-skinned babies and is named for Attila the Hun, whose children were all said to carry the mark. Mongolian blue spots range in color from blue to black to grey, and almost always fade within a few years.

Although most birthmarks are harmless and painless, a large birthmark can cause anxiety and shame for kids, who might also be prone to teasing or uncomfortable questions from classmates. For birthmarks that cause self-esteem issues or anxiety, medical intervention is possible. Some choose to have the mark treated with laser therapy to shrink the birthmark or make it less noticeable, and some use cosmetics to cover the discoloration. Some marks such as large moles or ingrown hemangiomas can be excised with plastic surgery. Any birthmark, once removed, can come back, so often the easiest thing to do is to leave it alone. Any birthmark that begins hurting, itching, bleeding, or becomes infected should always be examined by a doctor right away. "

wafiy punya yg mongolian blue tu laaa...apa aku kena buat yer...sebenrnya yg aku risaukan ialah anak aku tu diperli ngan kengkawan jer bila dia besar..kesian kat wafiy...bila tanya mentua aku diorg mmg suruh jer aku try jumpa org yg boleh alihkan tu...they said.."kesian wafiy,muka comel tapi kepala ada karat"....huhuhu...seriously i'm said when people keep commenting bout wafiy's birthmark..what should i doo???
1.Jumpa that ustaz and try to remove it?????
2. Just leave it alone and hope it will be gone in coming years....actually ini yg aku nak buat sebab bagi aku birthmark tu Allah dah bagi...aku tak nak laaa nak usik apa2 lagi... lagipun it's part oh his identity..bak kata papa.."nenanti kalau wafiy lari masa sukan sekolah..dari jauh papa dah nampak anak papa sebab ada tanda..hehehe...."

Tolong yer kengkawan...
P/s: Thanks for giving me the advice bout nursery...i decided to buy him more toys, lebih kerap bawak pg park n jumpa kengkawan and when he's one year and more..mama akan antar pergi mana2 tempat paygym for learning n play time..